Can you have it all? Yet we also want to feel successful. You don't have to make a lot of money to be a success. And we definitely want to be happy. Can you have all three? Sure. It isn't easy, but it is possible. Here's how: 1. Stop focusing on money. While it sounds counterintuitive, maintaining a laser-like focus on how much you make distracts you from doing the things that truly contribute to building and growing wealth. So shift your perspective. See money not as the primary goal but as a byproduct of doing the right things. 2. Start tracking how many people you help, if only in a small way. The most successful people I know--both financially and in other ways--are shockingly helpful. They're incredibly good at understanding other people and helping them achieve their goals. They know their success is ultimately based on the success of the people around them. So they work hard to make other people successful: their employees, their customers, t...